Sunday, May 17, 2015

Story of a Syrian refugee family in Jordan

It's one of many news stories profiling the lives of Syrian refugees in neighbouring host countries; Jordan, Turkey, Lebanon.

What's sad in these news stories is the attitudes of the host governments & the general public towards these refugees. Where is the basic human compassion for your neighbours? They all speak the same language (perhaps, a different dialect), may even believe in the same religion, & all are of the same ethnicity. The only difference between a Lebanese & a Jordanian & a Syrian is a line on the map (border), drawn up by British & French, dividing up the Ottoman Empire, back in 1920s.

I watched a news story a few days back that Brazil is issuing a large number of visas to Syrians to come start a new life in Brazil. Unlike, Syrians living in Jordan, those Syrians who go to Brazil, can start their own businesses or work under an employer. Imagine that. Syrians aren't allowed to work in Jordan but they can work in Brazil; a non-Muslim, non-Arab, non-neighbouring country is allowing Syrians to work & live in its country.

Who should be ashamed here? Believers of a faith, who so proudly say, that there are 1 Billion of them in this world, have forgotten what their faith tells them to do with their neighbours (irrespective of religion, race, ethnicity, language etc.); don't let your neighbour sleep hungry at night, & like for your neighbour what you like for yourself, & many many other commandments related to neighbours' rights.

Islamic history is full of Prophet Muhammad's (PBUH) actions towards his neighbours; neighbours who were not even Muslims & who used to make fun of him & attack him (verbally & physically) at any chance they got, & here are these Arab states, which are predominantly Muslims, are not only awash in money (Saudi Arabia, UAE, Qatar, Oman) & wasting that money to buy more weapons or build more artificial islands to build more dance clubs on them, while their brothers/sisters in every respect (religion, language, race) are sleeping hungry at night.

Then, we wonder why us Muslims are reviled all over the world? We can't even take care of our own, & then we want the world to help us out, which actually, does help us a lot more than our own brother in religion or language does. What happened to basic human compassion in us, Muslims?
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Three flights of unfinished cement stairs lead up to Mayadah Hammou's flat in east Amman's impoverished Jaba al-Nuzha neighbourhood. Fumes from a kerosene heater waft in the living room, where the family has gathered, huddling together for warmth.
 
At first glance, 34-year-old Mayadah, a mother of seven, does not look like someone who has lost so much in her life. She moves quickly around the house, welcoming guests with a big smile.
 
2 years ago, Mayadah, her husband Mohammad, & their seven
children fled their home in the Syrian city of Homs, eventually arriving in Jordan.
 
"We feared for the lives of our children & our honour," Mayadah told Al Jazeera.
 
Before arriving in Jordan, the family spent 2 years on the move inside Syria, searching for shelter from the constant shelling. They spent time in 8 different villages around Homs, but "wherever we moved, they began shelling", recalled Mayadah. 
 
Mayadah was wounded in one of the air strikes, leaving a fragment of shrapnel in her back. Doctors told her that removing it may cause her to lose the ability to walk.
 
Despite the escalating violence, the family was determined to stay in Syria, hoping that President Bashar al-Assad's regime would end and security would soon be restored.
 
"We thought it was a matter of days, weeks, or - maximum - months," Mohammad said. But as the war dragged on, the violence only increased. Reports of militias using sexual violence & rape as a weapon finally prompted the family to leave for Jordan.
 
In February 2013, the family, along with several others, were escorted through southern Syria to the Jordanian border by the Free Syrian Army, which has been helping Syrians enter Jordan since 2011.
 
At first, Jordanian authorities placed the family in the Zaatari refugee camp in northern Jordan, 80km north of Amman, where all 9 shared a tent for a month.
 
That month was the worst time during their 4 years of displacement. "In Syria, we chanted 'death rather than humiliation', but when we arrived in Zaatari we realised that we escaped death only to be humiliated," Mohammad said.
 
In the camp, refugees had access to food, shelter, schools & medical assistance. But the hot, dusty desert climate & poor hygienic conditions often caused tension & even riots in the camp. The Hammou children constantly suffered from diarrhoea & chest infections, & they found that medications did little to counter the effects of dust inhalation.
 
In search of better living conditions, they paid a bribe of 250 Jordanian dinars ($352) to be smuggled out of the camp, as tens of thousands of other Syrian refugees have also reportedly done. Since then, the family has moved 4 times within Amman & the nearby city of Zarqa, mainly due to disputes with landlords who raised rents significantly above the market rate. "They think the UN pays high salaries to Syrians," Mohammad said.
 
Back in Homs, Mohammad owned a truck used for selling vegetables. They had a house of their own, consisting of 4 bedrooms & a large courtyard garden. Mayadah even bought new furniture just weeks before the uprising began. Last year, she received news that their house had been demolished in an air strike.
 
Now, the family of 9 is living in a two-bedroom flat for 200 Jordanian dinars ($283) a month. Their living room is furnished with 5 foam mattresses. The floor is covered with several rugs & blankets donated by aid agencies & the Hammous' Jordanian neighbours.
 
The kitchen has several cupboards, but they are mostly empty. For months, Mayadah's family survived on 216 Jordanian dinars' worth of food vouchers from the World Food Programme, to which all refugees living in host countries are entitled. But that amount was recently cut in half.
 
As a result, Mayadah has had to reduce the size of the children's meals, & sells donated items like blankets & mattresses to pay for food & rent.
 
It is illegal for Syrians to work in Jordan, but about 60,000 Syrian children are believed to be working in Jordan, according to the country's Ministry of Labour.
 
"What breaks my heart is how they are wasting their childhood years," Mayadah said. Nasser wanted to become a doctor, whereas Ahmad wanted to become a teacher. But they have not attended school since April 2011.
 
The Hammou family finds refuge in visiting Mohammad's brothers, who also fled to Jordan. They rarely interact with locals.
 
"We are always afraid of problems because we are Syrians," Mohammad said. When they first moved to this house, neighbours rushed to donate blankets & cutlery to help them out. Their sole heater was given to them by a Jordanian woman.
 
But many other Jordanians, the family believes, resent them. Their 10-year-old son, Nayef, has been attacked by his classmates 3 times this year. "They call me Syrian & laugh at me for no reason," Nayef said. His mother went to the school to complain, but she, too, was subjected to verbal assaults from pupils taunting her for being Syrian.
 
The family's hopes for a quick return to Syria have dwindled. Nevertheless, they are determined to go back as soon as "Bashar falls down."

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